Holidays are often times when memories are made with children. For parents who are no longer together, determining how to divide up the holidays can be challenging because both parents likely want as much time as possible with the kids during these special times.
Parents who use the co-parenting model to raise their children may be in a particularly strong position to work closely together to ensure that any given holiday season isn’t one filled with stress.
Start early and communicate openly
One of the best things co-parents can do is start planning early. Talking to each other early enables both parents to set expectations for holidays. It also gives them ample opportunity to fine tune a schedule that puts the children’s needs first. Being open can help to prevent misunderstandings and make it easier for everyone to know what’s going on.
Focus on the kids’ experience
The holidays are about creating lasting memories, so keeping the focus on the children’s happiness is key. If you co-parent with your ex, take the time to think about what can help the children to enjoy the holidays as much as possible. This might mean having to compromise by adjusting your traditions or trying new things that fit your current family dynamic. By prioritizing your kids’ well-being, you can create a holiday experience that feels fulfilling for everyone involved.
Have a backup plan
It’s possible that plans may change because things don’t always turn out exactly as expected. It’s a good idea to have a backup plan in place in case something changes at the last minute. Being prepared for unexpected changes can help you navigate any bumps in the road while keeping the holiday spirit alive.
Your parenting plan should contain related information, such as a specific parenting time schedule for holidays, to help guide parents. Ensuring that the terms are set so both parents know their responsibilities and what should happen is beneficial. This may be easier for those who work with a legal representative to get their parenting plan in order.
